I learned not to tell anyone everything about myself. This is because the more we talk to others the more people wish bad things on us. People who always hear stories about us are actually our enemies without us realizing it. However, there are those who are really honest and good-hearted friends with us. However, we should be careful. The most effective way is not to see each other every day or to exchange messages often. It's enough to just ask how each other is doing, once every two weeks is enough or once a month.
If there is someone who likes to ask about personal things too much, invite him to chat about artists, football, recipes, health tips and others. Trust me, people who like to hear other people's personal stories are people who actually hate you. This is a reality that always happens to me. Therefore, we can be close friends on the futsal court or in the gym every day but don't share everything with our friends.
Life is very difficult to live if we are not wise to manage ourselves. We should have both types of thinking which are positive thinking and negative thinking. If we manage to apply both types of thinking to the right situation, we will succeed. Most importantly, we should have a feeling of love for ourselves. People who love themselves more than others, will surely succeed in the future. Our personal story is our absolute haka completely. If we don't tell our life stories, others won't know about our stories.
Let people wonder. The answer to his question about our personal matters, let time decide. The price of self-respect is very high, don't let others talk about us as they please after listening to our own stories. Now, information is only shared using the fingertips instead of pigeons or sardine tin phones! Stories that we think are good to share with people can apparently invite controversy after being shared on social media.
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